Friday, September 26, 2008

i am writing here to express my views and opinions.
not here as carmen's sis but as an individual with her own philosophy of life.

frankly, i have no idea what had happened between 4 of you.
carmen has not told me a single thing and she only explained to me briefly about this issue.
why didnt she do that?
she NEVER tell her problems to her own family members, not even my mum.
she did not whine and complain it to me.
she handled it like a true mature teenager.
she still acts happy in front of all of us here at home eventhough i realised that something was very wrong.
she did not really smile at home like she used to be.
until i saw her blog.
they are people who are hurting her feelings and backstabbing her at the back.
friendship to her is like her soul.
why would she used friendship as an url of her blog then?
she appreciates every single friend she has.
why would she kept silence and ignore all your comments about her?
i believe this is because she does not want to create a bigger havoc.
no doubt everyone has their flaws, i agree.
neither i am perfect.
maybe you all would think
'hey its none of your business you busybody idiot. let her handle it by herself'
of course it has got to do with me.
she is my sister and it is my responsible for me to protect her from any wrongdoings.

its not nice to drag other friends along when arguements occur.
if yin ling and poh wei really dislike carmen.
both of you should at least say something and not let beatrice do the talking.
shame on both of you.
before this incident, four of you used to be good friends.
and now.. what happened?
i know.. i know.. you all do not accept carmen's way of doing her work.
again, no one is perfect.
the best thing to do is to accept each other flaws and try to patch things up.
rome is not build in one day.
you need hard work and dedication.
this theory applies the same to friendship.
there are many many obstacles that one may faced in a relationship.
but can all of you take it as a challenge in life?
it is better to have an extra friend than an extra enemy.

you all are now in secondary school, not in primary anymore.
can you all talk face to face like a true teenager?
and hope that all of you can close this case and let it rest in peace.
thank you for reading.

p/s: sis, whatever it is.. make the best out of everything. no one is worth your single tear. i bet you cried a lot of times before you sleep. (no, my sis does not need any sympathy. she is not a beggar. consideration is a much better choice)

pp/s: to mr b, b.spammer, balless no life spammer. comments are appreciated. we have a tendency to back our favourites. its ok. like, i prefer lee hom over jay chou. but you know, its not good to add oil to the fire. stress can be minimized in that way.

ppp/s: NO ONE IS PERFECT. think again.